About dildos and how to use dildos in your vagina, your anus or other places
A dildo is a long object with a rounded end to be inserted into the intmate body openings to obtain sexual pleasure - namly the vagin or the anus. Similar objects are also used medically to extend these openings, but they are then not called dildos.
Often a dildo has the shape of a penis and sometimes the total object also include a scrotum-shaped part at the base.
Dildos can be variably thick and long and elsewhere also variably shaped. It is often fairly thin at the tip, then it is usully gradually broading longer downwards on the shaft, then it usuallly shink in sixe again even longer downwards towards the base, end it usually has some broad structure that hinders entire penetration and fascilitates holding of the dildo.
Dildos can be made of wholly stiff material, soft and elastic materials or materials that appears stiff but can be bent or shaped by using enough force.
Some tildos are made so thet you can pump them up inside the rectum, inflate them inside the vagina or pump the dildo up just in the rectal entrance. Such pumptoys make extra pleasure by the stretching of the orefice or the intimate cavity.
Dildos often have an electric mashinery to make vibrations or to give other types of movements. The term vibratot or sometimes vibrotoys is often used about objects to stimulate the intimate body parts by vibration. Often this term is used about dildos with vibrating capabilities.
Variations in dildo shapes
Many dildos are simple conical devices found in various sizes. Many dildos are thicker at the foremost places, then swing in at the middle and the thicker again at the handshaft part. Such dildos will often hold themselves in place by themselves.
There are many dildos at the market that have shape as a penis and even have a base formed like a scrotum.
some dildos are made slender and long so that they can be inserted high up in the colon if they are used rectally, some of these even approch the size of a sneaky tube that can cand bend to tresspass every curvature on its way upwards.
Dildos with such special forms or longitudes are often calld vibes or beads, allthough a typical bead is a tube-like or worm-lie device.
Some dildos have a bent tip so that it can more easily reach special points like the G-spot and prostate area.
You can also find dildose with special contoures to give special feelings, like shaped like a screw or having small knots.
The history of the dildo
The dildo accompany humanity since millennia. This is confirmed by the finding of some stone and bone artifacts of phallic shape at the Gorges d'Enfer (Gorge of Hell), in the town of Les Eyzies-de-Tayac-Sireuil in the region 's Aquitaine in France. These are probably dildos made out of stoney materials, although some scholars consider these artifacts simple work tools or reinforcements for spears.
A phallos-shaped green jade stone, probably used as a dildo and dating back to 6000 years ago, according to experts, is currently exhibited at the Museum of Ancient Chinese Sexual Culture (Museum of Ancient Chinese Sex Culture in Tongli) near Shanghai.
The dildo was also used in ancient Greece. They were carved and clothed in leather, and called olisboi (singular olisbos).
According to some interpretations, a dildo is figurately referred to in the Bible: "With your beautiful jewels of gold and silver, which I had given you, yourself made human-like figures and you used them for sin. (Ezekiel 16:17)"
Sometimes you can find bathroom equipment or kuichen equipmrnt that are tube-like and fit very well into intimate body orefices. It cab be exciting to use such devices instead of actual dildos, but make sure they are solid, made of material without poison and smooth. Stainless steel equipment coated with crome have a special apeal.
Materials used to make dildos
The early dildos were made of stone, wood, leather, wax or porcelain. Dildos made of leather at the outside and filled with cotton or rags were once very popular. Dildos made of rubber, but usually with a core of rigid meterial, were marketed for the first time in the 40s. These objects were quite dangerous because the gum could easily dissolve and the metal bar protrude and hurt during use.
Later safer dildos made of PVC came to the market. Many dildos sold today, especially cheaper ones, are still produced with this material. Allthough these dildos are cheap and primitive, they are usually solid, smooth and of a good quality and you should concider such a dildo or your first choice if you are not trained in using dildos.
Dildos made of chrome have enjoyed a cult status, especially in BDSM circles. Dildos made of hard and thick PVC and metal like chorme are robust, very smooth and easy to clean. These dildos also often resamble medical istruments and are fine for medical fetish play.
The '90s saw the boom of silicone dildos. These were expensive at the beginning but are now sold for reasonable prices. The silicone absorbs body heat well and is an excellent conductor of vibration. Silicone dildos of high quality can be fairly robust, but not as robust as those made of the hard materials. They are often fairly smooth, but still not as smooth as hard dildos. They can be easy to clean, but still not so easy cleanable as the hard ones.
More recently dildos of borosilicate glass (Pyrex) have been introduced. They are expensive and rigid, but are successful also because they can be brought to body temperature with plain warm water and sterilized by boiling.
Another new material is the Cyberskin, similar to human skin in look ans touch - the eye and touch. The Cyberskin guarantee a particular realism, but it is a porous material that cannot be sterilized, it becomes sticky after washing (which inconveniently can be remedied with wheat flour) and it is much more delicate and perishable than silicone.
Some soft PVC and jelly dildos contain phthalate, a softening agent added to some plastics used for CD cases, food containers and other soft toys. Phthalate may enter the bloodstream through the mucous membranes of the mouth, vagina and anus, some studies link it to diseases like cancer and birth defects. PVC products and gelatin also can not be sterilized.
What are the best dildos?
It si with dildos as with everything else, the quality varies from product to product, and there is not allways a direct correspondance between the prize and quality. It is all right to buy something of inferior quality, as long as the thing really can be used some time before it is worn out, if it is safe and do not break apart in a dangerous way,and if the prize you buy it for is as low as the quality. If however you buy an expensive thing, yous should also expect good quality. In either case you should not buy anything that can be dangerous due to quality faults.
The following are requirements you should keep to get a dildo of good quality:
It does not matter very much for the use and pleasure you can get from it, whether it is hard, soft or elastic. But it should however not be too soft and flaccid, because then it is difficult to insert it withou it hanging itself up at some point.
The dildo should however be very smooth so that it does not make unpleasant friction.
It should be of good quality. You can check the quality by assertain that the dildo is composed of one firm piece or of pieces that stick firmly and tight together. There should not be any irregularities in the material.
The dildo should be of the right size for your openings.
For the beginner, a simply shaped hard and smooth dildo that is not too big is often fine. Such a dildo can be used both in the vagina and the anus. It is also a good idea to buy a battery of such simple dildos variously sized. Then you can use the smallest one at the beginning. When you get more experienced you can use the smallest ones when you initiate your play and shift to the bigger when you are warmed up.
Uses of dildos for female genital and vaginal lust
You can massage and caress all parts of your cunt with a dildo, such as the clitoris and between your pussy lips by gently massaging with the dildo tip. If you use a vibrating dildo, the vibration will propagate through the tissues in your cunt and under your cunt and stimulate itensely.
Dildos can be used to stimulate the senual zones inside the vagina and around the vagina by masssaging movements, by stretching, by pressing and by sending vibrations throughout the tissues. A dildo can also be used to apply lubrication and stimulating creams in the intimate openings.
Dildos can be used niside the vagina to reach sensual zones that are hidden and not as easily accessable by the penis or by fingering. By using a dildo of right size in the vagina, the vaginal walls will be stretched and zones deep in the tissues around the vagina will be stimulated. Whith a dildo long enough one can reach deep zones around the opening to the uterus also. By pointing the dildo in strategic directions inside the vagina or by using dildos with outsprings at one side or slightly bent one can stimulate the G-spot that lies between the vagina and the urrethra and around the urethra.
Uses of dildos for male genital pleasure
The tip of the dildo can be used on the outer male genitals to stimulate feelings, either by gentle massaging, by pointing more sharpely dowwards or by means ov vibrations. For example can you point upon all points along your urethra between your legs. When your penis is erect you can also point along the underside of your penis. The groves at ech side of your scrotum are also extremely sensual points and also the groves further back at each side between your legs.
A thin lubricated dildo can also be used to stimulete in the cleft of the opening of your urethral orefice.
Uses of dildos for anal and prostate pleasure
Just in front of the anus, many persons, and especially men, have a little deepening or grove. For some men this grove is so distinct that it nearly resamble a little vagina. This grove is an extremely sensual zone, and fingering inside this deepening with a dildo or applying vibrations her ecan give intense pleasure.
Dildos can also be used in the rectum to stimulate sensations around the rectal opening by stretching the opening and the rectal spinchter. With a dildo one can also reach several deep sensual zones inside the anus. Men can by means of a dildo with the right shape also stimulate the prostate and the zones very near the bladder from behind.
By pointing somewhat upwards inside the rectun, men can stimulate the prostate, either just upon the prostate, just in front of it or just behind it. For this kind of stimulation a dildo with a somewhat bent tip will be the best device.
Application of dildos to stimulate other erogenous zones
Both sexes can tease up intense pleasurable feelings with the stimulation of a dildo tip at areas that are not commonly thought of as sexual zones, and especially if the dildo has vibrating capabilities. The feelings you get in many zones are specifically of sexual nature, but in other places there will be an exciting and intense ticle. Stimulation and caresses with a dildo in these alternative zones will also often lead to reactions that spread to the genital and anal region and such stimulation is therefore a good foreplay practise.
One very interesting point is the navel. This structure is a real sexual entrance in both men and women and fingering deep inside the navel with a thin dildo makes you horny in a very special way. The excitement from such stimulation also tends to spread along the midline of your lower belly and out to your clitoris or penis, and it will stimulate fine feelings in your bladder region.
The dildo tip is also fine to tease up the feelings in and around your breast nipples. Try for example to rotate a vibrating dildo tip around your breast nipples. You will feel strong ticles with resonances all over your whole body whil your nipples tense up to the form of a tight knot. The inside of your shoulders are very sensual, and every point here gives interesting feelings upon stimulation. A tempereture lower or warmer than the skin temperature add significantly to the stimulating effect. A gentle touch with a big cold or warm dildo gives the best effect here. Closing your arm over the dildo and let it stay there some time while vibrating is also a good idea.
Uses of dildos as a medical device
Dildos can also be used in tre treatment of vaginal or anal narrowness or strictures. In this case one begins by inserting lubricated thin dildos and when these are tolerated gradually use thicker dildos.Women can furthermore use a dildo to rupture the hymen before the first intercource or to widen a hymen that has not been satisfactorily ruptured during intercourse.
By unwanted cramping in the vagina or rectal opening, dildos can be used to gradually wean these body zones from cramping and learn a man or women to relax their intimate zones.
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